Guest Book

Share your thoughts and memories of Onjelique Christine Stevens (Onjo).

200 Comments

  • Eric Todd
    Though I never met her, through her father I felt like I knew her. Eric Todd
  • TinyT (aunt Teresa)
    My precious little Virgo Princess - Hello B.E.A-UTIFUL! I'm sure your wings haven't taken a break since you moved... most likely a socialbutterfly, the life of the party, and maybe even "running things" by now... hehehe and Yes, i'm jealous you got your wings before i did - but i ordered mine along time ago - so guess i'll have to be a bit more patient... so you just keep having a blast, and getting the neighborhood prepared for me! As you know - "In the blink of an eye..." CiaoBello
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    A beautiful tribute to a beautiful young lady. Thanks for sharing Onjo with me today kb
  • my dearest daughter and son we feel your pain which does weigh us down the most,but when we can see through that part of it ,we see the pure MAJESTY of ONJO there with ''THE ALMIGHTY FATHER AND SON,''right there in HIS presence, most likely sitting on HIS lap as she did her daddys and granddaddys She IS in good hands and it aint ALSTATE, shes walking with the ANGELS today and has paved the way for us to follow,''NNNNOOOO one'' will EVER take her place in our hearts ,Take comfort our loves, to see we are here for you two and as our hearts are full with missing ONJO,its sooooo open to your needs and saddness,at this time ,but think of the ROYALTY shes among and how ,i know shes just praising HIM and helping others as they join her ,We all are closer to going her way then staying here so WE WILL SEE HER SOON.!!!!!!! all of our love to 2 of the most courageous and loving people we have had the privilege to be mom and dad to your mom and dad
  • Kelly Bradshaw
    Onjo! I never met you, but saw your pictures many times and heard about you often. I remember this past spring when my dad called me and told me that you were in a better place. I was happy, but so very sad at the same time! I cried for so long because I didn't understand how someone who was so young and full of life could leave us so soon. But you definitely lived your life to it's fullest and treated each day like the gift that it truly is. I feel so blessed to know your story and comforted to know that your friends and family had you in their lives for the time that you were here. I can't wait to meet you in heaven!
  • Doreen McDonald
    I never met you, unfortunately, but I have met your Dad through my job at BGM. I felt from the first time I met him, he was a kind soul. Just seeing your beautiful face and reading your thoughts I can see you took after your Dad. Heaven is very lucky to have you. One day I will get to meet you, till then God Bless You and your family who misses you so much. Give them the strenght they need until they see you again. P.S. say hi to my Mom Dorothea for me, please tell my Mom I miss her lots. See you both one day.
  • Bobby &Becky
    The Dragon Fly, so fitting "Transparent wings" she knew the value of these, using them only when needed. Look at wikipedia's discription of Dragon flies. " Dragonflies do not normally bite or sting humans, though they will bite in order to escape." "They are usually found around lakes, ponds, streams" If you knew Onjo these three attribuites as well as many others were her!!! BBB&D
  • Ashley Driscoll
    This website has brought tears to my eyes but at the same time a warm, safe feeling in my heart. As I looked through the pictures memories started flowing. I remember vividly the very first time I met you and the very last. The first time we met, I was a freshy freshman, I'm talking one of the first parties. It was on Red Lane. I walked in the back and you were sitting on a futon. I must have been with someone you knew or vice versa, but you jumped up and said, "HEY! I'm Onjo!" and gave me a nice to meet you hug. I sat with you and we talked about where we were from and the typical greeting small talk. There was something about you, something that intrigued me to listen and captivated me about your smile and energy. I remember asking you about your name and you explained it with so much pride. We were instant friends. The last time I saw you was on graduation day, both in our silly gowns, crossing Clay St. heading for the ceremony. I hadn't seen you in months and when we made eye contact, you ran over to me a squeezed me tighter than ever and with the most love I have ever felt. Someone, somewhere planned that moment. Sure, it was a big day, we were graduating, finally...but looking back, that hug has stayed with me through ups downs and inbetweens.Thank you for watching over me and please stay with me, I need your guidance, but you already know that. I love you, always will. Thank you.
  • Ashley Driscoll
    Saint Of Circumstance -The Grateful Dead Lyrics: John Barlow Music: Bob Weir "This must be heaven Tonight I crossed the line You must be the angel I thought I might never find Was it you I heard singing Oh while I was chasing dreams Driven by the wind Like the dust that blows around And the rain fallin' down But I never know (sure don't know) I never know, never know (sure don't know) This must be heaven 'Cause here's where the rainbow ends And at last it's the real thing Or close enough to pretend When that wind blows (wind blows) And the night starts to fall I can hear the silence call It's a certain sort of sound And the rain fallin' down Rain fallin' down Holes in what's left of my reason Holes in the knees of my blues Odds against me been increasing But I'll pull through Never could read no road-map Now I don't know what the weather might do Hear that witch wind whine See that dog star shine I got a feelin' there's no time to lose No time to lose I never know (sure don't know) I will never know, no, no (sure don't know) Well it's been heaven Even rainbow's will end Now my sails are filling The wind so willing And I'm good as gone again I'm still walkin' So I'm sure that I can dance Just a saint of circumstance Just a tiger in a trance And the rain fallin' down Rain falling down Rain falling down Well I never know Just don't know Just don't know Sure don't know what I'm goin' for Sure don't know But I'm gonna go for it for sure Yeah for sure, yeah for sure Sure don't know what I'm goin' for Just don't never know, never never know But I'm gonna go for it for sure No no no, that's for sure, yeah for sure Sure don't know what I'm goin' for Just don't never never know, no no But I'm gonna go for it for sure That's for sure Sure don't know what I'm goin' for Yeah maybe going on a dream, going on a dream now But I'm gonna go for it for sure Maybe going on a feeling, maybe going on a feeling Maybe going on a feeling"
  • Nancy Chapman
    I think this a wonderful website.Just like Onjo
  • Jana
    An unusual twist of fate brought us together and made us sisters in our hearts. We shared laughter, tears, our joys and our fears. You were there with me every step of the way and I know you still are today. I feel you watching over me – protecting & smiling down at me. I’m comforted to know that you’ll be there when my time comes, but I miss you so much. Our time together was too short. I would give anything for another moment to see your smile, hear your raspy voice or receive one of your always comforting talks telling me that everything’s gonna be ok. I love you Ste-On!
  • To look at the treasured photo gallery it's easy to see that Onjo, even with that intractable enemy within, found ways to enjoy life. She denied to CF the overtaking of her life while there were things to accomplish, people to meet, and moments to enjoy with family and friends. I observed her when she was often there to help my daughter in her time of troubles - a fellow lung transplantee. I witnessed her sitting quietly taking in the roaring sounds of the ocean in the Palm Beaches - and, I saw her lying in the Pulmonary ICU connected to a ventilator. She was a good friend, a romantic, and a warrior. We're glad our paths crossed with Onjo's. May she rest in eternal peace. Merry Christmas in heaven.
  • "Cat" (MaryCatherine)
    I miss you - I miss your hugs - I know you're having fun -
  • Phillis Raikes ask me to type this for her: ONJO you are the sweetest angel i know ,we miss you and will see you when GOD calls us home your mother and father are wonderful people,and I wish there was a way to make it better,but nothing will ever be the same with you so far yet so near, You were a beautiful rose here among us thorns,your light is EVER shining now as you are in HIS presence ,keep it burning to guide us , Love from your family's friend and grannie to many Phyllis Raikes
  • my heart and prayers go out to all onjo's loved ones.such a beautiful young lady and so full of spirit.i never had the honor of knowing this family but the website in memory of onjo shows how much sunshine this little lady brought to so many,im sorry i never had thechance to meet her but one day we will all meet again!god bless you all
  • Ashley Crotts-Kassebaum
    I'm so very thankful from all the memories I have with Onjo they will stay in my heart forever. She was such a fun, sweet caring person. I looked up to her when we started cheering together and then later as a GREAT friend of mine and someone I could always talk to about anything ANYTIME. I am truley blessed to have known her and to have had so many wonderful memories with her. She will forever be missed and will always be in my heart!!!!!! LoVe yOu oNjO*
  • beth hoskins
    What a beautiful young lady that we will never forget!
  • Henry & Terrie Newbold
    We met Onjo through Harold & Ann Hoffman in Long Valley, NJ - a vibrant young woman with an absolute overflow of personality and love. Her care and compassion and cheerful inspiration to Harold were a true beacon in his darker moments, and his loss of a truly valued friend affects us all. We send our sincerest sympathy to her family and friends all over the place but know from the bright moments she spent with us here that she is charming the angels and is the center of riotous good will up above.
  • PV2 Christopher L. Mayer United States Army
    I am honored for the chance that I had to meet you. You touched each and everyone's heart with your strength and courage and I am stronger just by your influence.
  • Jana
    Merry Christmas Onjo - say hi to Jesus, the angels and all of my other buddies that are up there with you. I miss you like crazy.
  • TinyT(auntTeresa)
    God saw you getting tired - when a cure was not meant to be. So he wrapped His arms around you - and whispered, "come with me". You didn't deserve what you went through - and so He gave you rest. God's garden must be beautiful - He only takes the best. So when I saw you sleeping - so peaceful and free from pain. I couldn't wish you to come back - to suffer that all again. (author unknown) How very blessed you are, JoJo - It's NewYearsEve & as you know - your momma & daddy's anniversary is today... so take special care to be near. Our tiara's, sparklers, &new '08Virgo book await - see you tonight precious, just don't be late. Ciao Baby Bella xoxoxo
  • donna
    HAPPY NEW YEAR TO OUR ANGEL BABY..... MUCH LOVE ALWAYS........MOMMA AND DADDY
  • Michael and Angie Orange
    New Year's Eve 2007 - Onjo, we are two hours from New Year's and we want to break in the New Year's with you! Your memories are wonderful and we will raise are glasses with you tonight! ( I will sneak you one when your momma is not looking :) Love you always!
  • hi our lil darling we wish we were there with you but since we cant be ,this will have to do for now. WOW! There it is! ,we can finally say it .Grandmother and Granddaddy are saying WOW! our lil girl is in HEAVEN with our heavenly family! May JESUS care for you til He calls us eternally, YOU will never know how much we miss you and adore you ,you will always be our ''Shining Star'' We look into the north sky and see you so clearly with HIM. Take care our love ,time is short .you are our '''ROSE '''that will never dim HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008 Grandmother and Grandaddy
  • Hillary
    It's like you could walk through the door any minute. I cannot wrap my mind around your absence. I cannot put into words what I feel. I think I tried to push away the reality of what was. I can only say that I love you and I miss you and that my life was deeply enriched because you were a part of it. I will never forget you. I know you're close. It's like you could walk through the door any minute. Love always and always, Hillary
  • Emily
    One of the first memories I have of Onjo was in the 7th grade and we were sitting in English class and she wished me a Happy Birthday. I didn’t even know that she knew my Birthday, but she was the only one to remember that day. From that point on, I believe we were inseparable. Throughout high school we were known as Emily and Onjo, Onjo and Emily. You didn’t have one without the other. We went through terrible fashion styles together, shared many a late night dreaming of the older boys at school, and ate lots of chicken stir-fry with cheese and microwave potatoes. As we got older, we pushed the limits of our curfew, got in a slight bit of trouble, went to the Salem Fair every night it was in town, discovered tanning salons and shopped like it was our job. We made countless and priceless memories that I will cherish forever. She was my Best Friend. We went our separate ways during college, but kept in touch the best we could. Every time we talked we picked up right where we left off, there was never a struggle for words. Onjo was such a great friend, I knew no matter what she would be there for me. Onjo had an optimistic personality, was always looking for a challenge, and never seemed to be afraid of anything. I am very privileged to have known Onjo, I believe she made me a better person, and if it wasn’t for her, I probably wouldn’t be the same person I am today. She touched the lives of my family and I, and I couldn’t feel more blessed and more thankful for the time that we spent with her. I don’t think it can be said enough what a wonderful and special person she was. I want to say so much, but it’s hard to put everything into words. I love her and miss her. Love always Emily
  • Celine
    What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful young lady who touched so many lives in unforgettable ways....my dearest onjo, you are missed. seeing who you became and what you accomplished is why I keep doing what I do. You give me the strength to keep doing it, even when it seems futile. The reality is that it is never futile. You never know whose life you will touch and whose future you may change. Go and live on through those that you love and protect those that loved you. You wont be forgotten.
  • Ebony Gammon
    Gee Onjo- It seems like just yesterday I hugged you and posed for that amazing photo of us at my wedding. Time flies ! I think of you often and I know that you are happy now probably hugging all of the angels =) I looked at your pictures and realized again how many people love you and miss you dearly. My mom says hello and Im sure that she will visit your site soon ( she's learning how to use the laptop I got her ) unitl then I'll have to relay her messages, lol. We both give you hugs and kisses ! love and prayers ebony
  • John Mulholland
    Onjo, We never met but I was fortunate to know a small part of your life as told to me by a dear friend of mine, your father. Your ever present smile in the pictures on this website is a reflection of the love & happiness you gave to the friends & family around you. John Mulholland
  • Diana Whitt
    Onjo, you were TRUELY an amazing person and found a way to touch everyone even through your writings, i'm glad to have been touched by you.. God bless your family Love, Diana
  • Onjo,you are my HERO,,I still look to you for answers, and for guidance. Iwill always love you ,and I know you love me.I miss you so much ,you are my only neice,and I will always make you proud of me .take care til we see each other soon ,my love. aunt ashlee
  • Hey Onjo, I know you are havin fun up in heaven with God. I know that you will always be watching over me everyday. I can't believe it has almost been a year since you started your journey with God. When i catch myself asking why you were takin, i remind myself that you are no longer in pain and that you are doing cartweels and shouting for joy, and that you are in God's arms singing with the angels in that sweet husky voice. So i will do my best to make you proud of me. I know you already know this but i have made it on the deans list for three straight terms. I told myself that i would do it to be like you. You made it and i look up to you for that. You are my idol and my hero. You always had a smile on your face even when things didn't go right, and your smile would light up a room. I remember all the fun times we had together, the sleepovers, movies, lunch, and shopping. We did so much together. I love you and i miss you like crazy, i will always hold on to the memories that we made. So take care of yourself and the others there with you. til we meet again in heaven, all of my love Aunt Kaylann
  • Rebecca Wright
    Hey Onjo, I'm sad we never got to meet. Your mother made me feel like I knew you though. I've never seen any one human being have the love for another like your mother has for you. What a precious gift your relationship is. It's amazing that you were so special, that you have reached so far and touched so many. Your movie star smile will always be in my mind and I hope you've gotten to meet my mother. She, like you, left this world too darn soon for my taste! She was amazing and beautiful just like you! So don't have too much fun without me...a blink of an eye and I will be walking with you. I hope I can make half the impact on this world that you did! Love Rebecca
  • hi Onjo,Everytime I think of you,whether it be ,you working ,at a party or sitting around, you always had that amazing smile.(I will never forget that SMILE) Always so joyous and jubilent in every aspect of your life.You are such a part of my life that i still pray for you every nite, thats how you have touched me. I miss you so much and your words of wisdom when we talked.I want you to be proud of me you will be , you'll see LOVE your uncle Richard
  • Aunt Jacque
    It's no secret you where precious to me. I want you to know your uncle would have been with you if he could have. But again it gave me such pleasure to be with you. You grew from a most darling child to a most beautiful woman. Although I'm SURE of your wings now you always knew how to fly!!! Your parents taught you well...a free spirit no one could keep down.You are a woman who is as beautiful inside as out! Lord knows I will miss you!! you are with me every day. I feel you envelope me during our most sincere talks. THANX for watching over me!! You double my Guardianship. Tell my baby Hello...hope you've encountered each other. Well dear I must go...I'm off to now write your parents. Looking forward to celebrating you and your wonderful life. I LOVE YOU darlin...Happy Valentines!!!! You're mine.
  • CORREN
    ONJO ITS THE DAY OF LOVE AS MADISON, OR AS YOU LOVE TO CALL HER YOUR BUG A BOO, CALLS IT MADISON WANTS TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH SHE IS MISSING YOU. SO AFTER SEEING COOKIE SHE ASKED TO SEND YOU HUGS AND KISSES WITH YOUR CARD TO HEAVEN? I SAID PUT AS MANY AS YOU CAN, SO FROM THE TIME WE LEFT COOKIE AND PICKED UP YOUR BALLOON AND GOT BACK TO THE HOUSE TO SEND YOUR CARD WITH 10000000000000000 HUGS AND 1000000000000000 KISSES, MADISON SAID DO WE NEED MORE THAN ONE BALLOON BECAUSE THIS MAY BE TO HEAVY FOR ONE BALLOON CAUSE I PUT SO MUCH HUGS AND KISSES IT MAY BE TO HEAVY. I BEGAN TO LAUGH SO HARD IT REMINDED ME OF THE TIME YOU, ME AND YOUR MOM, WHO HAS BEEN LIKE A MOM TO ME, WOULD LAUGH SO HARD OVER THE SILLY THINGS THAT TEARS WOULD POOR OUT OF OUR EYES AS WELL AS ALMOST PEE OUR PANTS AND THE THOUGHT OF THAT MY LAUGHTER TURNED TO TEARS TO SEE THE LOOK IN HER EYES AS SHE LET GO OF THAT BALLOON SO FULL OF LOVE FOR YOU AND AT THE SAME TIME CAN NOT WAIT TILL YOU GET HER CARD FILLED WITH HUGS AND KISSES. A SMILE OVER COMES HER FACE THAT REMINDED ME OF YOU AND MORE TEARS RAN DOWN MY FACE BUT IT IS COMFORTING TO KNOW YOU WILL STILL GET TO WATCH YOUR BUG A BOO GROW UP PS I MISS MY LITTLE SIS SO MUCH MY HEART BREAKS EVERY TIME I THANK OF YOU. I LOVE YOU JOJO
  • Mikey
    the world has never been the same since u came along. each and every person that met u was blessed by an angel. ull always be in our hearts and our minds. luv u always Kronz. -Mikey
  • Craig Roberts, (seat infront of you, Daytona
    My Prayers are with you and your family, Hope to see you in daytona next year for the 500. Please feel free to contact me. You have a beautiful guardian angel looking over you all. Please be happy with that, she wants you all to have a good life and she will always be with you, and now she has the best life ever. God bless you all. Craig
  • Brett Jungblut
    Onjo, I miss you little sister! I know your in heaven smiling down. Every time I think of angels, I think of you! I feel blessed to have been a part of your amazing life. Much LOVE to you and your parents, Brett
  • john perez
    Fly away on golden wings, Far from all these mortal things. Fly to where the Angels live, See the beauty Heaven gives. Fly away from darkness, night, Fly away and find the light. Fly away your life is done, Your endless journey has begun. But hold your memories bittersweet, Until once again we meet. Fly away on golden wings, Your heart is pure, your soul will sing. Fly on the other shore, Where there is peace forevermore.
  • momma and daddy
    HAPPY EASTER YOU ARE SO BLESSED TO BE IN HEAVEN ON SUCH A JOYOUS OCCASION.... WE MISS YOU SO MUCH -- CONTINUE TO HOLD YOUR LAMB. OUR HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU NOW AND FOREVER.. HEART MOMMA AND DADDY
  • Celine
    Happy Easter Onjo! This is one of many holidays I wish I could spend with you, one of many too short.....Spread your wings and your love, we miss you, dearly, I miss you soooooo much. Always. so much love I cant tell you, Celine PS> hold the hands of those you love who love you so, protect them and walk in thier path, they feel you, they know. Hold them....
  • Celine
    Donna ,Gerry and Jana, hey guys, go under the blog section to jana's first inquiry on how to start a blog, I was reading it and had some memories and just started typing, still making me laugh. I miss you all and I worry for you. I am sending all my love and very large hugs, 2 for each, 3 if you have been behaving lately! :) love always, C
  • ONJO your granddaddy and I love you so much and I know we talk everyday but surrrrree would love to see your face ,but your Spirit is what is shining ssssooooo bright its blinding . its ssssoooooo amazing to know YOU are there ,where we all want to be, right beside The FATHER of all fathers.WOW! It's grander than anything I ever told you, right?say hi to mama and deddy and Granddaddy's daddy and sister. Happy Easter darling and we'll be there soon all our love forever GRANDMOTHER and GRANDDADDY
  • Jeff Jones
    Gerry, My prayers to you and your family, Thanks for the call and for telling me about this site, very beautiful. God Bless, Jeff
  • Emily
    Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. I miss you so much...
  • Dan McFadyen
    Onjo, My best friend, from the moment we met I knew we were destined to be best friends. I will never for the rest of my life forget that day. So many things I want to tell you...I miss you soooo much, not a day goes by I don't miss our talks, your smile, your advice, OUR crazy stories. And there's not a day that goes by that I don't remember all the good and bad times we shared. You were my best friend, and you will ALWAYS be my best friend. Just wanted you to know that our marriage contract at the age of 30 still stands and won't be broken. God Onjo i miss you sooo much, but you are up in heaven watching down on us and showing us the path to follow, you are no longer in pain and with the other angels now! I LOVE you and miss you and cannot wait till we are together again. Love, Danny
  • Hillary
    Dearest Onjo, As I read such wonderful tributes from those who love you, it is even more evident just how much you graced so many lives with your beautiful spirit, friendship and love. You were not of this world... truly, you were heaven sent to bring light into the lives of your parents, family and friends and we are forever changed and inspired from knowing and loving you. I miss you terribly, I miss our years from long ago... from boyfriends to prom dresses, trips abroad and our sneaky-ness! You are simply amazing, unlike anyone I will ever know again. Please know you are in my heart and I love you very much.... WE ALL LOVE YOU! Always, Hill
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    Today, if I would paint a picture of my thoughts of you I think you would be in a cloud of pink with purple edges looking down on those of us who have a different journey to travel. All of your friends and family have written such wonderful words; mine can only add, "thank you" for being a part of my life along your journey. Kathryn
  • Basil Bratton
    Although I never knew her, this is a beautiful way to remember her through an endowment fund. I am a former Roanoke College grad(1990). Bless you and your family for their thoughtsfulness
  • Zach Graybill
    Onjo, Just want you to know that I am thinking about you and miss you more than you know. I started thinking today about all the fun times we had from goofing off in highschool, to hanging out when I would come into town from the Marines I could always count on your smiling face to be there for me. I am sorry that I missed so much time with you when I left and then didn't catch up more when I got back. I guess I could say what if all night, but I do know that I love you a ton and miss you like crazy. Zach
  • Kaili Hutchison
    I know that you enjoyed dragonflies. But I never knew the meaning of dragonflies and what I discovered amazed me. Dragonflies mean a transformation and grace, they start in the water and move to land. They are messengers of the elemental world, symbols of light or 'light bearers" and as they mature they ultimately reveal their inner beauty. All of these can be used to discribe you, Onjo. As one year goes forward, I hold on to the memories we shared. I hold on to the fact that because of you, the world is truely a better place. Hugs and Love - Kaili
  • Donna Hoffman
    I was blessed to know Onjo at Glenvar High School and to have her sweet smile and wonderful spirit in my English class. She is an inspiration to all she left behind. Mrs. Hoffman
  • Laura Tucker
    I never personally met you Onjo, but I had friends who knew you and everywhere I went I heard your name or saw the license plate driving around town. I read your story in the paper after you had your transplant. I had no idea, in all the talking from friends they never said you were sick, I just always heard how happy you were. Then I read in the paper when you passed away. I was sad even though I had never met you. Then the other day I was walking to the coffee shop on my lunch break and saw a sticker on the back of a car that said ONJO.ORG So today I thought I would stop by and check it out. I am glad I did! You were totally everything people talked about and I wish I had had the pleasure of meeting you while you were still here in life. But for now, everytime I see a dragonfly I will think of you and smile! Have fun out there in the wonderful place you are now!! Continue to make the people around you smile! ~Laura~
  • Kristin
    Onjo, You are truly an amazing person and each one of us is blessed to have had you in our lives. I can just imagine you now, up there spreading love and hugs and kisses like crazy. There is no doubt in my mind your wings are busy carrying you around spreading your love & wisdom. I think about the first time we met, at your house on Academy when Danny brought me over. He had always tried to tell me what a special person you were but until I actualy met you I could have never guessed the magnitude of your presence and love. From that day on, you were someone I knew I could count on, someone who's friendship I cherished. Heaven is very lucky to have received such a beautiful angel. I think of you everyday and wish I could still see you, but I know you are looking over everyone you love and for that I am grateful. Keep that smile and know I love you so much. xoxoxo Kristin
  • ONJO this morning i held you as a lil girl,it was such a warm wonderful experience to feel you again ,to comfort you and to snuggle with you,I ask the LORD why i couldnt hold you now as a big girl ,and HE said very clearly ''You dont have to now,, i'v got her in my arms ''This touched my heart to know JESUS loves us enough to still explain things in a Fatherly way, Take care my ANGEL, YOU are my heart GRANDMOTHER
  • Linda Karnes
    What a wonderful, beautiful tribute to such a beautiful and special person. My prayers go out to her family. PEACE BE WITH YOU. Linda
  • Melissa Humphreys
    I remember the last time I saw Onjo. We ran into each other at Mac & Bobs a couple of years ago and I remember hugging her so hard knowing what she had been through after the transplant. Had I known that was the last time I would see her, I would have hugged her a little harder. I didn't get a chance to know Onjo very well, but I do remember that she was so sweet to everyone, and she inspired so many people on her journey. She will always be remembered.
  • Pamela Davis
    Donna, My heart and prayers go out to you. I have no idea how you are feeling and I hope and pray I never have too. Although it is coming to all of us, could be much sooner than later. Take care of yourself you know Onjo would have wanted you to. Try not to dwell on it and maybe some of the pain will go away. Donna the most important thing of all is Keeping God in your heart and praying to him daily to help remove the pain. God is Good, he will not let you down!!!
  • I’m so sorry that Onjo had to leave you so soon but rejoice that she is with our Lord and be comforted that you will gaze upon her sweet smile again, and be with her forever.
  • Andrea critzer
    Finally peace everlasting will be with you, your breathes are gone but still you live on. Live on in the hearts and minds of loved ones that still remember your life in sweet songs. Remember you in dragonflys as they flit by, Remember you in times gone by. Remember you in life being happy. Remember your smile that always lasted a long while. Finally peace everlasting is with you. your breathes may be gone but you will always live on:) Peace be with all who read this always. Andrea Critzer
  • Jeff Spencer
    Onjo, you are greatly missed. Even though our paths didn't cross often, everytime they did, you certainly brightened everyones day. Its not a day that goes by that I don't think of you and your parents. It is a pleasure to be graced by your presence and to bask in your glory. I was always told that "God has a rose garden and he only picks the most beautiful buds to grow in his garden". You really are a blossom!
  • Jana
    Hey girl - today is Mother's day and I know your Momma misses you so much. We all do. The world is not the same with out you in it. 4 years ago today I got my transplant and you and your Mom were there for me - waiting while I waited and then with Eric for the whole night until my parents arrived. Other then Eric, you were the only person I wanted to see when I woke up - you knew what I needed in an unspoken way. I wish you were here today to remember that day, to celebrate your Mom, to be here on earth. We miss you so much. Love you - Jana
  • Ann Hoffman
    I felt you near me today,don"t know why maybe I saw a picture of you on your buddy's desk, we miss you so very much. -Love you - Ann & Harold
  • Hillary
    I walked down the steps from my deck today and there was a gorgeous aqua-colored dragon fly perched on the railing. I said hello to you and thanked you for being around. You flew around me for awhile and landed on my car just as I was getting in. I know you're near. I smiled and thought of you. All my love, H
  • Emily
    I feel like I need to tell you so much, but I know that you already know what I need to say. Things have happened this year that no one else knows about, but I take comfort in the fact that I was able to share them with you like always. Thank you for being there for me, I know I am never alone. Love you On a lighter note, I flushed my cell phone down the tolet, yes down the toilet! Donna, when you read this please email me, emily.still42@yahoo.com. (I didn't have a back up for numbers)
  • john perez
    thinking of you today onjo
  • Alesha L. Allen
    Thank you Onjo for living a great life that has touched the many hearts close to you. Your love of life, independence and passion has been immortalized in a memorial scholarship which has now benefited me and others to come. Even though I have not met you, looking at the pictures your mom showed me...I just could not help but feel I have met you before. Learning about you and the woman you were (finishing college, having your own place, balancing friends and working) was nothing short of inspiring and... how did you do it?! Such strength and passion has given me another boost to chug on in my desire to finish college and forge a life for myself. I would like to extend my gratitude to Mr and Mrs Stevens for everything. I wish you both a long and healthy life and God bless you both. Thank you. Alesha
  • Jamie Staples Snead
    Onjo – I stumbled across your website today and as soon as I saw your picture the tears just poured. I think about you so often, and pray for your many friends and family members who are missing you, especially your mom and dad. Earlier this year I went to the CF Great Strides walk here in Roanoke and there were so many children there with cystic fibrosis and I pray that they will be able to beat CF. I always thought that you would, but I know you fought hard and lived an amazing life with no regrets. I miss you girl!
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    Dear Onjo, I recently read the following and it made me think so much of you. I believe these are some of the words that you would want your Mom and Dad to hear as they are planning their new home. The author is unknown so I will just share it as it is. If I could write from Heaven, this is probably what I'd say, Please don't miss me too much, I'm with you throughout your day. You may not see or hear me, but if you're quiet and still, You may just feel my presence; because, in Heaven, there is free will. Don't worry for the day, it will come and go as planned, Enjoy each moment you are given, keep worry from your hand. Keep sorrow to a minimum; For if Heaven you could see, You'd know I'm safe and happy, I did not cease to be. ___________ For Donna and Gerry from Kathryn. I think of you and pray for you daily. John 14:27 "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."
  • Alvin Gillespie
    Happy birthday to a beautiful girl! Keep looking out for Momma and Daddy, as well as the rest of us. We will all be together one day, and what a party it's going to be! Alvin
  • MILDRED WHITESCARVER
    TO ALL THE FAMILY MEMBERS OF ONJO,I DID NOT KNOW EITHER OF YOU BUT LOST MY BROTHER 2 YEARS AGO AND CANNOT BEGIN TO EXPLAIN THE PAIN BUT, GOD SAW FIT THAT DAY TO TAKE HIM HOME JUST AS HE DID ONJO.ALWAYS,THINK OF THE FUN HAPPY TIMES AND KNOW WE WILL BE WITH OUR LOVED ONES AGAIN,SHE WAS TRULY A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY AND NOW ONE OF GOD'S ANGELS.BLESS YOU ALL AND THANK YOU FOR SHARING A BEAUTIFUL SITE FOR YOUR ANGEL.I AM THINKING OF YOU AND SAYING A SPECIAL PRAYER EACH NIGHT AS I DO MY OWN BROTHER.WITH LOVE,MILDRED WHITESCARVER
  • ERIC HELM
    ONJO, THANK YOU ONJO FOR BEING YOU. YOU ARE THE SWEETEST PERSON I HAVE EVER MET. YOU MADE AN IMPACT ON ME THAT WILL LAST FOREVER. I TRULY MISS THE JOY YOU WOULD BRING WHEN YOU WERE AROUND ME. TODAY IS YOUR DAY. HAPPY BIRTHDAY. SINCERELY, ERIC HELM
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY ONJO!!!!! Birthdays in Heaven must be VERY, VERY SPECIAL AS GOD CARES FOR YOU THROUGH ETERNITY. Down here, we are working hard to learn to abide in God's sovereign care. Sometimes it seems that God has reached down and pressed the pause button to life in order that we might just stop and let Him guide us. I believe that God always has a reason for asking us to abide in Him. The greatest way is to abide in quietness of spirit. As your spirit rests in God's care on this your birthday, may we Thank God for your triumph. Kathryn
  • Emily Still
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY ONJO! I love you and miss you...
  • Michael and Angie Orange
    Happy Birthday Girl. I am writing a day late but you know that I was thinking about you yesterday on "your" day. Your memories that you left us will always be remembered. Angie and I are having our first little one this month. Her name is Dylan. I know that she will be blessed and I am sure that you will keep your beautiful eyes on her (Hint: give me a sign when she is doing something that she is not suppose to do :) ) We will "try" to keep your momma in check for you...you know how hard that is :) We love you and know that we are thinking about you! Mike and Angie
  • I read your "In memoriam" in the Roanoke Times and felt compelled to visit the website. I didn't know you or your family but you sound like you were a treasure. Thank you for all you've done and may we all do just as well as you did.
  • Tracy Vandeberg
    Donna, WOW!! What a beautiful tribute to Onjo. I am speechless at the heart put into this beautiful treasure. So many of the pictures of Onjo remind me of you and now she will continue to live on in you. May you know that she touched many lives. Peace and Comfort to you and Jerry. Tracy Vandeberg
  • Amy Layman
    For Onjo's family and friends-- I'm years older than Onjo-- she was more along my younger sister's age-- but we shared schools together, both GHS and RC. And though I live in Raleigh NC now, I am in Roanoke this week for business meetings. I was driving this afternoon and saw a sticker on the back of a BMW for Onjo.org. I knew immediately that had to be for the only Onjo I knew, and I made myself a note to check it out. Here I sit just hours later, on my Blackberry, viewing this website and writing this note to you. I read a little of her writing. She thought her big long name was a big one to live up to-- but it was her short name of Onjo that she stepped into so well that someone like me, who knew her just from a couple times acquaintance, would see a name on the back of a car and feel moved to check out her website. I've never done that before. And then I come out to this guestbook and see all of these entries just recently for her Bday-- I would be lying if I didn't tell you I'm not so sure it wasn't Onjo herself that knew I saw her sticker and wanted me to check out her site. I'm glad I did, and hope this message brings a smile to your face. Whoever drives the BMW with her sticker on it-- Onjo is tagging along with you. God bless all of you who miss her so much. She's still with you-- I have no doubt. Amy
  • Wow... Kim just talked to me and told me about this site...I miss you guys very very much and I miss Onjo tremendously as well !! You have my contact info...I've moved to Lynchburg and have been here for 3 years !! Love You, Sugar Ray
  • Bruce Alan Sawyer
    I only knew Onjo for about six months, but she became one of my best friends. It was a hard thing to hear when she passed. She helped me through rehab at the center for living. She some how became an inspiration to me. She was a very nice and beautiful person. I will always remember her in my prayers and thoughts everyday. I keep a picture of her on my cell phone as my wallpaper. Just remember, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here. Keep you in my memories always. Bruce A. Sawyer
  • Grandmother
    Onjelique Christine,you are still such a presence in our world,in our heart, in our home. Tears continue to fall almost at every breath, but now they are selfish tears,b/c we miss you and cant wait to see and hold you again.Jesus has been sooooooo patient with me and He knows I'm not the only one that has lost her ''heart'',but He also knows it takes time to find your heart again and then put the pieces back together, He has been my strength when i have none ,my friend when I don't want to be around people.He is good to let me get a glimse of you in a car going by ,in a glance when a girl walks by with her shades on her head,so many lil comforts He gives us .Tomorrow Granddaddy and I will celebrate our49th or 50th,boy! we are old enough to be there with you ,I tell JESUS all the time He could take me and finish molding me up there,But i'm going to keep on keeping on til He calls. I've never been a quitter, just like you. WOW! You are in HEAVEN with the ALMIGHTY, CREATOR ONJO .Whay an Honor!!!! We'll be there soon , hugs and kisses to you my love Grandmother
  • Staci Gladden Counts
    Thinking of you!
  • SHANNON, CHUCK, AND MIA
    DONNA CHUCK AND I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW WE WERE THINKING ABOUT YOU GUYS....AND WE LOVE YOU... I JUST KNOW ONJO LOVES THE NEW HOME YOU HAVE...I HOPE YOU GUYS HAVE A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS AND REMEMBER ONJO IS WITH GOD ON THE MOST SPECIAL DAY (CHRISTMAS) AND YOU KNOW SHE IS LOOKING DOWN ON ALL OF US TO MAKE SURE OUR CHRISTMAS IS AS SPECIAL...LOVE SHANNON, CHUCK, MIA
  • Michael, Angie, and Dylan Orange
    Happy New Year Sweetheart! Breaking in the New Year with our baby Dylan..you will absolutely eat her up...she is a doll. After all of those years getting on your Mom about spoiling you rotten...now I know why. You will always be with us in our thoughts and heart. I am sending you a kiss to start 2009 off right:) Love you, Mike, Angie, and Dylan Orange
  • Connie L. Fuhrman
    Gerry and wife, when Gerry gave me the web site I went to it right away and was so moved by all the photos and sayings. My heart is so happy to know that she is with her Lord Savior and has her wings and singing in the almighty choir. May God sustain you and keep thru each day in the good memories and happy times with Onjo and knowing she is happier then ever. Thanks Gerry for giving me the site and allowing me to share in your memories. Connie
  • Kristine
    Thinking of you today and always.
  • Brooke Linkous Akers
    Its been almost 2 years without you now. Its still so hard to think back on everything but I know you're looking down on myself, Chuck, and JP, your best friends, and helping us through this crazy life. I'm so blessed to have had you as a best friend for all those years and while I wish you were still here with us, I know you are finally free of pain and with The Lord. I'll always love you and miss you, Onjo. Brooke
  • Pamela, Wayne, & Morgan Onjelique Bright
    Onjo as you well know back in September two days before your birthday we gave birth to our little angel, and your namesake Morgan Onjelique. Everyday we thank God and you for being her guardian angel to guide her safely to us. I know you are right here with her and all of us everyday. In your own special ways you have even shown us signs of your presence. Don't worry we haven't over looked not a one. Please continue to show us your grace, warmth, and love as the years go by. You are with us today, always...and forever! Pamela, Wayne, and Morgan Onjelique
  • Hillary, Mike and Ellyott Holland
    Thinking of you today, Onjo. It is hard to believe it has been two years. I wish so deeply you were with us. You're in our hearts and in the joy we feel when we are reminded of you by a passing dragonfly, a beautiful smile or the laugh of our little girl. You're in our hearts. We love you very much. Always, Hillary, Michael and Ellyott Holland
  • Emily Still
    Onjo! I can't believe it has been 2 years now... I think about you every day and I miss you so much. I know you are with us all the time and I can't thank you enough for being Brody's guardian angel. You mean the world to me and I love you!
  • Ron Wiley
    Thank You for touching our lives with your beautiful smile, your intelligent wit, your magnifying charm and your pure and genuine effervescence. Your memory is fresh and is permanently carved within us.
  • Joyce Sink
    What a beautiful young lady...What a loss for the world,but what a gain for Heaven....Rest in peace. God bless the family and friends.
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    Onjo, Just sitting here wondering what a day is like in Heaven! Hoping today is all you dreamed it would be- a day filled with laughter and love, a day to celebrate your second year in Heaven! You would be so proud of your new house here. Your mom and dad have remembered you in so many special ways. I was so honored to have the opportunity to visit---to be among your things and feel your presence Every time I walk on campus, you are there with me! And I think of the time that you spent there and how proud you were at your graduation! Please know that you were loved then and you are loved now. Kathryn .
  • Kaili Hutchison
    Hi Onjo! Two years have flown by and I can still see your beautiful smile and hear your wonderful laugh! I miss you so much. Till we meet again, much love and a big hug!! Love you! Kaili
  • Hillary
    Looked through your pictures today... I've been thinking of you alot these last few days... don't know why... maybe it's because it's getting warmer, flowers are blooming, spring has arrived. Saturday was beautiful and I wondered to myself what you would be doing on a pretty spring day. I miss you and love you so much, Onjo.
  • Karen Stuckey
    I will never look at a dragon-fly and not think of this amazing young lady and her kind mother. To her mother- You have succeeded, her kind beautiful spirit lives on! Thank you for sharing this with me, you made my day! -the gift shop girl :)
  • Angela
    Onjo: I'm sorry I didn't get to know you when you got older. You were so precious when you were little. You certainly did blossom into a gorgeous and brave young woman. From what I am reading on this site, you were even more beautiful inside. Ang
  • Anonymous
    I saw a car today going down the road with an "onjo.org" sticker... For whatever reason, it stuck with me and I read the website... Today, I'm more grateful, more thankful, more "reminded" of life's preciousness. Thank you and God bless.
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    Just thinking about you on this beautiful summer day and thinking what a narrow road we travel between this life and the next. This makes me wonder what a beautiful summer day is like in Heaven. I am trying to take a moment and seek to understand what He wants us to learn from all of this. With you He had something far more important in mind. REST IN PEACE!
  • Brian Boggs
    Although I only had a few conversations with you Onjo, the words you shared with me at the GHS stadium will stay with me forever. You touched my life in ways that I did not even realize until years later. You bring hope, love, and BIG SMILES wherever you go and I know that heaven is no exception. Thank you for showing us so much! Brian
  • Jana
    Happy Birthday sweet friend. I hope you're having a festive party up there with lots of dancing and all of the things that you love. I miss you so much and will always celebrate this day in my heart as it was the day that you were brought into this world. Til I see you again and with lots of love, Jana
  • Emily Still
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR ONJO, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!! I love you and I hope you are having a great party today :)
  • Connie Bane
    Praying for God's comfort to Onjo's family as you draw from your memories of someone so dear.
  • bridget chamberlain
    i saw the picture of onjo in the paper today and went to the website. i did not know this beautiful young woman, but i have twin daughters that will be 25 on sept 14th and could not imagine what it would be like to lose one of them. my thoughts and prayers are with this family. life is precious and short and every day is a reminder of this. live life to the fullest and never take anything or anyone for granted. god bless you.
  • Kaili Hutchison
    Happy Birthday!!
  • Michael Orange
    Happy Birthday sweet thing! Keep a smile that only you can do!!! Love ya! Michael, Angie, and Baby Dylan Orange
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    Dear God, according to each persons needs, bless them where they need the blessing the most on this the day that we remember Onjo's birthday! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, PRETTY GIRL!! Kathryn
  • Hillary Holland
    Sweet Onjo, I wish you a very Happy Birthday! I celebrate your life and our memories today and always. Happy Birthday! Love always, Hillary
  • Billie Reid
    While I never had the pleasure of meeting you, I, too, am a graduate of RC and also lost a dear friend to CF several years ago. I know the fight and the determination that carried you through each day. This is a wonderful website to honor you and it is wonderful to have such a great fund set up in your honor at Roanoke College! Thank you and God Bless.
  • Elizabeth Martin
    This is a beautiful website and Onjo was a beautiful person. My prayers are with you and your family on your birthday.
  • Hillary
    I've heard your laugh in my mind lately... almost like you're right with me. Your big loud laugh... the one that would take your breath away.... and yet, you would still continue to laugh, even without breath. You are still so very vivid in my mind and I hope that never changes. I'm just thinking about you and wanted to write. I wish you were here. Keep laughing. Love always, Hillary
  • Robin Hobson Howery
    Jerry, I just got on your daughter's site. My god, she is beautiful in every way. I cant imagine the pain that you and her mom have endured. I am so glad to finally see and talk with you after all these years. Please take comfort in the fact that God needed her more than everyone here who loved her so. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, for giving me her website. I will now be one of her number one fans, and do what I can to help others with the same illness. I look forward to meeting your wife. Please bring her out to eat. Everything happens for a reason, and we all have to have faith that one day everything will fall into place and your family will be whole again. Take care and stay in touch. Robin
  • Tom Fogarty
    About a year ago Onjo's Mom called me to tell me about Onjo's passing, but to also tell me that a special time that we had shared in Onjo's life was STILL a special time for her. I have to tell you that I was immediately weakened and very saddened to hear of Onjo's passing. See to me she was still that little girl that I met in Italy over 10 years ago. I had the pleasure of meeting Onjo on a trip with her Mom and Dad when we went to Italy together. We started out strangers but quickly became friends, all 5 of us. It was Onjo, her Mom and Dad and myself and my wife. We did not bring any of our kids with us on the trip and we missed them immensely. So when we met a couple that had brought their child with them on the trip it was a blessing for us. We spent a week in beautiful Italy with new friends and their daughter. This little girl was not just another little girl. There was something special about her smile and her attitude towards being happy each and every day we were with them. Well needless to say we had one of the best times of our lives in Italy being catered to and treated like royalty by the trip givers. The one thing we found out about Onjo qucikly is that she had life in her. She enjoyed everything we did every day. During that trip we found out that Onjo had CF and we were both shocked with the news from her parents. You would NEVER have known anything was wrong, or bothering her at any time of any day. During this trip we treated Onjo like a little adult inside of a little kid and I remember her telling me that she was happy that we didn't treat her like a little kid. We were all invited to a beautiful old castle where we were greeted with people dressed like the old Itlaian age, to long horn players with flags mounted to their horns while serenading us into the castle. We were "announced" at the opening of the gate like royalty. I can't really describe this night or the feeling other than magical and unbelievable. That night they were playing music and I had the chance to dance with the magical little girl that we called an adult and honestly I can still remember her face while we were dancing, she was radiant. Her smile beemed across that castle dance floor and I remember her Mom taking a picture of us dancing. That night on our way back to the hotel my wife and I walked hand in hand with Onjo in the middle while she skipped down the street between us. I remember wondering if her parents may have thought that we were stealing their kid. Haha. When it came time to leave Italy and go back home I remember Onjo being very sad that we were not going to see each other again and as everybody does we probably promised that we would, we hugged and we left. I did keep in touch for a little while with Mom, we were in the same business and we always talked about visiting them but again as we people do, we never made it happen. Many years had passed since when I got that call from Mom telling me about the last several years and about Onjo's passing. I logged onto the site and I couldn't believe what a beautiful woman she had turned into. I knew when she was young that she was going to be a stunning woman but not until I opened the site did I see it first hand for myself. I would like to tell all the people that had a chance to share in this womans life how lucky YOU were. I can still see the glowing smile and the you can't keep me down attitude in her eyes in every single picture. I have seen some beautiful smiles in my now 45 year life but I will tell you that Onjo had one of the best I've ever seen. It's now about a year since Mom and I have talked and today December 20, 2009 I looked at my favorites list, which is where I put her site, and I logged back on to take another look at her life. I have probably looked at this site about 10 times in the last year but when the holidays come around you think of things that you should have done. Well I should have visited, and I now am very saddened that I didn't keep that promise to Mom and Dad but mostly Onjo. This little girl had a "connection" about her that was incredible. Although again many years have past and I haven't seen Onjo I still feel a heavy heart when I log on, and that is a true heavy heart of things "I should have done." So my Christmas advice to everyone that may read this is Treasure the moments you are given each and every day. Make good on those comitments that you promised along the way. And if a little girl wants to be treated like a little lady, dance with her and you might just be the one that feels her joy. Onjo you blossomed into a beautiful woman and I still carry the joy YOU GAVE to me when I danced with you. God thank you for touching all of our lives with Onjo. God Bless Onjo and Momma and Daddy Tom Fogarty Buffalo, NY
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    Thinking of you with love this Christmas Day.
  • Dan McFadyen
    Merry Xmas and Happy New Year Onj, I miss you sooooo much. I think about you every day. You are my best friend and you live on in all of us. Love Danny
  • Rebecca Johnson
    Onjo, Hello my sweet cousin and Happy New Year! I want you to know that I truly miss you and can't wait til the day I see you again. But you know what I do see you every time I see a beautiful dragonfly I see you. I used to rarely see dragonflies but since you flew away to be with God I see them all the time and I know it's you saying hello to me. You inspire me to live life to the fullest and never stop dreaming and living. You lived an amazing fulfilling life and I know you are spreading your special joy in Heaven to the angels, to all the people there and most especially to God. How lucky they are! Keep visiting me my beautiful dragonfly and when it's my time to go will you fly me to Heaven on your back so I can feel my breath taken away by the majestic sight and feel the breeze from your wings blowing through my hair? I love you and miss you! Becca
  • Kathryn Buchanan
    Hi Onjo, When I woke this morning, the sun was shining brightly giving us a beautiful Sunday morning. I heard to birds singing----guess Spring is finally finding its way to Roanoke. The sunshine and the sound of the birds made me think VERY SPECIAL THOUGHTS! Kathryn
  • Kaili Hutchison
    Hi Onjo - I cannot believe that it has been three years. Miss you and love you! Kaili
  • Hillary
    Thinking of you this time of year, and always. You are loved and missed so very much....as new life springs forth this special season, I'm reminded of your life, it's beauty, and how you are still with us. Much love always, Hillary
  • Emily
    Think about every day, love you and miss you!
  • Hillary
    Looking forward to walking in your honor, on May 1st! GO TEAM ONJO!!!
  • Beau Jackson
    Though we didn't get to see each other very often, every time I stopped by Granny Florence's I would ask how you were doing, and see your pretty pictures sitting on the table in the living room. I wish I would have really gotten to know my wonderful cousin. Life is definitely not measured in length, but by how many lives you touch and how much your time has meant to yourself and especially the family and friends that surround you. This website is a great thing, a living testament to a wonderful person. God bless.
  • CELI
    onjo just becus we dont write all the time doesnot mean we have forgotten you know we can NEVER forget YOU you are still our sunshine along side JESUS so much has changed since you left,im so glad you are with the LORD where you are safe GOD surely mush smile upon us to take our only grandchild so im know we are none worthy but we try and live so each day we thank HIM for HIS LOVE our love til we see you face to face with HIM GRANDMOTHER AND GRANDDADDY
  • Kaylann Chapman
    ONJO- Wow it is July the 20th 2010, i cant believe it has been three long years since you have moved on, i think of you often, and remember all the times we shared together, I passed my certification for my Pharmacy Technician Job :) i felt like you were there with me the whole time, giving me the strength to not go completely insane. i know you are watching over our family and know we all miss you so very much. When my day comes i will be in heaven with you and we can dance and sing songs together like we used to. Boy i can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but for now i will just keep thinking back to my memories and praising God for all the times we got to share. I LOVE and MISS you so much. Take care and i will see you in heaven
  • Emily
    I love you and happy almost birthday!! :)
  • Amanda Atkinson
    Although I never met you, my dad told me to look at your website from the newspaper, and I'm glad I did.. your face is so familiar and absolutely I can see the beauty you have within you~ Will certainly feel your peace in the next moment I share with a dragonfly. Blessings to your family <3
  • celi chapman
    H B-DAY SWEET GIRL WE GOT YOUR MESSAGE AT CHURCH TODAY WINGS APPEARED ON THE TOP SIDES OF THE CROSS ON THE WALL THAT WAS THE SIGN JESUS GAVE ME ON THURSDAY AFTER YOU LEFT US ON TUESDYMARCH 27,2007 ON YOUR PICTURE WE (GRANDMOTHER AND GRANDADDY LOVE YOU WITH ALL OUR HEARTS SHIRLEY IS WITH YOU NOW AND IM SURE SHE HAS DELIVERED THE MESSAGES WE ASK HER TO BRING YOU ,WE HAVE LESS DAYS THEN EVER NOW BEFOR WE SEE YOU ,,CANT WAIT TO HOLD JESUS AND PRAISE AND GLORIFY HIM FOR A THOUSAND YRS THEN I'LL SEE YOU,HE HAS MADE IT ALL POSSIBLE FOR US TO BE DELIVERED FROM THIS WORLD TO BE WITH HIM FOREVER ALL OUR LOVE AND HEART GRANDMOTHER AND GRANDADDY
  • Hillary
    Happy Birthday, two days late! We were actually at the beach... and guess what ?(as if you didn't already know) so were your mom and dad!.. I know they were there to remember you! It was your favorite place to be, and as we were driving out of OBX, I said to MIke, "the beach was Onjo's place!" You are missed more than you know. I wish you could see Ellyott and Miles, as they would just adore you. Donna and Gerry are doing a great job ensuring they certainly know you! We love you so much! Always, Hillary, Mike, Elly and Miles
  • Ashley Crotts-Kassebaum
    Onjo! I know this is a few days late, but I thought about you all day Sunday, I hope you had a wonderful 28th bday in heaven! You are truley missed by everyone, everyday! Keep sending your sunshine down to all of us :) Love and Miss you ALWAYS!!!! Ashley & Jon Kassebaum
  • Pam Davis
    Onjo, When I met you I knew there was something special about you. You are missed here on earth but what a great addition to Heaven. I can see you up there with that beautiful smile and wonderful personality. You will always be missed here but I look forward to seeing you again.
  • stephanie dobyns
    gone but not forgotten... a child is a gift, a gift from above she brings so much joy, she brings so much love a baby one minute, you blink and time flies you hold her so close, you look in her eyes... happiness, smiles and such wonder you see when she looks at you, how lucky you'll be to share each moment with this angel on loan to laugh with her daily, to see her soon grown... and knowing one day, you'll hold her again in the arms of a mother, in the arms of a friend cherish the thoughts as you hold them so dear as a dragonfly floats by you can feel her so near... stephanie (11/28/2010)
  • Wanda Dobyns Lester
    I missed many years of your life, but remember clearly the beautiful, talented and wonderful child that you were. From the pictures and comments I know that you grew into an even more beautiful adult. May God's Holy Spirit continue to comfort and fill the void in the hearts of your parents and grandparents as only He can. Love forever and always, Wanda [Dobyns] Lester
  • Karen Wiseman
    Onjo: Although we never met I have heard so many wonderful things about you. I worked with your mom at First Team and she is a great lady and so I'm sure you were exactly like her. In talking to your mom I find out its a small world! Your good friends Kaili and Ryan and also close family friends of ours. You would be so happy to know Kaili and Ryan are both engaged and planning 2011 weddings. I can't believe they are all grown up, but time does move on. After looking at your website and looking at your pictures, I wanted to also write a note in your guestbook. Heaven does have a bright beautiful angel and I know you are smiling down on your family and friends as we speak.
  • Keri Bowman
    Dearest Onjo, I will never forget your smile. Especially the way that you could make me smile when I was down :) You always had this "bright light" around you, which was so comforting to everyone around you. The impact you made on us all who knew you was profound. Your memory will NEVER be forgotten. I still see pictures of us at cheerleading camp together, and I can't help but smile, and feel a deep sadness in me. I saw a dragonfly over the summer, and I smiled, and told my son about your theory on them :) I know we will all meet with you again, one day, and I will give you the warmest embrace. Your momma loves and misses you so very much, and you were so privalaged to have her as a mom. I love you. Until we meet again- Keri (Haga) Bowman, and family.
  • Ashley Crotts-Kassebaum
    Onjo- I hope you had a wonderful and snowy Christmas in heaven!!! You are missed everyday!!! Love ya always! Ash & Jon Kassebaum
  • Kristin
    Onj, I've been thinking of you and wishing I could see your face so much lately. Keep shining brightly on me and everyone you love. xoxoxo Kristin Ps...I know you've been watching Marleigh...how amazing is she?!!?
  • Angela Dobyns Brizendine
    I'm sorry mommy I left you so soon, I was there when the angels woke you up at noon. I know I was gone from the flash from the start, Mommy Remember! I'll always be in your heart. I listen to you dearly, when you visit my grave. Please don't cry, be sad. Continue to be brave. I didn't mean to leave you and daddy so soon. I was looking from heaven when everyone released their balloons.There will always and forever be a part of me living in you. I'll be waiting for you here, at the golden gate. Time is ticking mommy, Please don't be late! I long to embrace you in my arms. Don't worry Mommy!
  • I searched for one thing completely unique, but discovered your website! And must say with thanks. Great study. Will come along back.
  • Debbie & the Breuer Boys
    What a beautiful tribute to a radiant person. Onjo made the Center for Living a place they could goof off and forget just a minute what they were going through. I am proud to know Onjo and her family, and feel comforted they are together. I will always look for fairies and angels. Quite a coincidence that my most favorite song is and always will be " What you'd be today" by Kenny C. Bless you Onjo!
  • Hillary
    Thinking of you, baby girl! We miss you so much. Still feels like yesterday you were here. I'm glad the memories of you are so clear to us. All our love, always and always, Hillary, Mike, Elly and Miles
  • celi chapman
    TO OUR LIL ANGEL WHO IS WITH US EACH AND EVERYDAY .ONJO I KNOW YOU ARE HAPPY IN HEAVEN BUT WE ARE SO SELFISH WE STILL WANT YOU HERE WITH US.IT IS STILL SO MAJESTIC THAT YOU ARE ALREADY GRADUATED TO THE MOST HIGH, AND WE ALL ARE TO WALK THAT MOUNTAIN TOP SOON ,BUT YOU OPENED IT UP FOR US TO GET OUR LIFE IN ORDER SO WE WILL BE READY WHEN JESUS CALLS US ,I DONT KNOW HOW PEOPLE GO THROUGH LIFE NOT KNOWING OUR LORD JESUS,AND THINKIN THERE ARE DIFFERENT WAYS TO GO TO HEAVEN ,NO THERE IS ONLY ;''ONE'' WAY ,AND YOU FOUND THAT WAY,THROUGH THE BLOOD OF GODS ONLY SON JESUS. WE NEVER SHALL FORGET YOU ACCEPTING JESUS IN YOUR HEART AT 6,AND YOU PREACHING TO EACH LIL FOSTER CHILD THAT CAME THROUGH OUR DOOR ,I KNOW AT A LIL AGE YOU WERE ALWAYS THINKING OF OTHERS YOU ARE GRANDMOTHERS AND GRANDDADDYS SHINING LIGHT WITH JESUS WE LOVE YOU MORE EACH DAY HANG LOOSE ,WE ARE COMING ,CUS HE IS COMING SOON ALL OUR LOVE GM , GD
  • celi chapman
    onjo mom said i could write you i love you and still have the earrings in you took me to get on 10th birthday,thank you i miss you mary catherine
  • celi chapman
    hi onjo, i love you and think of you somtims ,im glad i have a pictur og us sittinf no the coush togger michael chapman
  • Kaili
    Hi Onjo, I can't believe that 4 years have flown by and it feels like yesterday you were here with us. I miss you everyday. I love you! This year is a big year and I know that you will be there. Kaili
  • Jamie
    Onjo, I met you briefly once when I worked at First Team. You walked in the office and the whole room shifted. You were so lively, beautiful, funny and seemed to be a force to be reckoned with. Your mom would always talk about you to us girls in the office. I remember feeling envious of the fierce love and admiration that shone in your Mom's eyes when she spoke about you as my Mom and I do not have a good relationship to this day. After visiting every page of your site today, I am so grateful I had the opportunity to meet you, as brief as it was. I am also grateful for the examples of love that I have been shown by other mothers & daughters so that I can show that love to my daughter, Kelsey. Stevens family ~ you are on my mind often and fill my prayers.
  • Devon Collins Taylor
    Though I was never good friends with her, I had talked to her several times in classes I had with her. She was a sweet, wonderful girl, and if we had a chance, I know we would have been friends. She had a unique empathy, that is very hard to match. She and others like her will always live on, far after the pages of life have been written. And life we know have changed, as it always does. God and The People Rest
  • Ryan Bode
    Hey Onjo, I often drift off into my own little world inside my head and think of random events, today I went back to the first time I met you at a Sig party before I was a Brother. You and Ethan took me around and looked after me. I miss those days.
  • Becky Tingler
    ...thanks for the beautiful website honoring a beautiful life...
  • Michael Orange
    Happy Birthday Beatiful! Thinking about you and want to wish you a Happy Birthday! Love you! Michael, Angie, Dylan and Ally!
  • Kaili Crumpacker
    Happy Birthday Miss Onjo! I love and miss you so much!
  • ASHLEY KASSEBAUM
    Happy Happy Birthday!!!!! Love and miss you bunches :) XOXO Ash & Jon Kass <3
  • danny mcfadyen
    Happy birthday onj, we all miss you so much. You still live on in all of us! :)
  • corren
    ONJO HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!! We Love and miss you! Thanks for sending max to us on your birthday! It has made madison so happy. Love you miss ya Madison, Brian and corren
  • Donna, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as you celebrate Onjo's birthday. I know you and your family miss her terribly, but take joy in the knowledge that you will see her again in heaven for all eternity. Your lunch buddy, Glenda
  • Robbie Lynn McBride
    What a beautiful site. This lovely treasure known as Onjo made such an impact on all those who read about her.I am reminded to live my life as joyously and full of love as I can. Just like Onjo did while she was here. Thank You to her parents for sharing this wonderful daughter with the world.
  • CELI CHAPMAN
    OUR PRECIOUS DARLING , I COULDNOT BRING MYSELF TO WRITE YOU ON YOUR B-DAY,JUST MISSING YOU SSSSSSOOOOOO MUCH ,BUT YOU CAME TO ME THRU JESUS A FEW DAYS AGO ,N WE SPENT THE DAY TOGETHER,WALKING ,SITTING, HUGGING,YOU WERE SOOO SWEET ;THE INNER ONJO AS YOU ARE TODAY CAME THRU SO CLEARLY ,YOU ARE NOT OF THIS EARTH NOW BUT YOUR SPIRIT SHONE THRU AND THAT SMILE, THAT CONFIDENCE, THE CONCERN FOR OTHERS,WE SAT DOWN AT A TABLE ,N YOU NODDED TOWARD 2 OLDER LIL TINY LADIES,SITTING AT THE NEXT TABLE PRAYING,I NODDED ,I SEE , GRANDDADDY GOT UP FROM THE TABLE N WENT OUTSIDE ,WE HUGGED AND I SAID ''ONJO I NEED 10 TO 12 HUGS A DAY ,YOU NODDED ,WE DIDNT NEED WORDS SO MUCH ,DID WE ,?CUS WE LOVE EACH OTHER SOOOO DEARLY.THEN YOU WERE CONCERNED ABOUT GRANDADDY N YOU WENT TO CHECK ON HIM,YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT THAT DAY MEANT TO ME ,I LOVE YOU TO INFINITY AND BACK(KAY'S QUOTE) WE WILL BE THERE SOON BABY GIRL,AS TIME IS DRAWING NEAR GRANDMOTHER AND GRANDADDY
  • richard chapman
    miss u onjo, it was nice growing up with you around. you are special to me and you always will be i love you soo much. hope your having fun in heaven..
  • Emily
    Happy New Year! Hope you had a wonderful Christmas too! The other day, I was thinking about when we wore our cut-off jean shorts, our dad's polos and those sandals. I don't think I will ever get over that!! I'm not sure what we were thinking. Love you and hope this made you laugh, it makes me smile everytime I think about it :) haha
  • Hillary
    Have been thinking of you so much lately. Everytime I hear a Sublime song (random, I know) or enjoy good food and laughter... I just think of you and all those little moments we shared. It's hard to believe tomorrow is 5 years...you still seem so real to me as if I saw you or heard your voice yesterday......and I'm okay with that. Love and hugs....Hills
  • Kaili
    I think of you often and miss you so much. I cannot believe 5 years have past, but I know you were with with us everyday. Love you! Kaili
  • Ashley Crotts-Kassebaum
    Onjo, Its hard to believe yesterday made 5 years since you had to leave us! I think about you so often!!! I know your shining down on all of here who love and miss you sooooo much!!! Sending my XOXO's your way :) Love you! Crotts :)
  • Scott Dalton
    Hey Onjo, We are still thinking about you. I know you are watching over us. We love you. Scott Dalton
  • Jessica Hatfield
    Dear Onjo, I have heard nothing but amazing things about you. It is a shame we never got to meet. Even without meeting you I do believe we would have been great friends. I will soon be attending the same college you did. Everything that I have heard about you is such an inspiration. I cant wait to meet you in heaven. I hope we can be close friends. I hope that I am not offending you by writing you this I just wanted to finally talk to you. I am happy to have become part of your family. See you soon Onjo =]
  • Kaili Crumpacker
    Dearest Onjo, I have been thinking about you a lot lately and miss you. Maybe it's the time of the year. I keep seeing dragonflies everywhere and I know that you are near. Love you so much. Kaili
  • Kaili
    Happy 30th Birthday! I know you are celebrating in Heaven. We will celebrate for you here. Miss you everyday. Wow not Why and today is WOW day!
  • Ashley Crotts Kassebaum
    Happy Birthday Sweet Girl !!!!! Love an miss you always !!
  • Kevin Baker
    Onjo was a very special person and student at Roanoke College. I had the honor of having her in class. She left a lasting impression with everyone she met. I am glad that her name will live on in a scholarship at the College to help others. Everyone who knew Onjo misses her greatly.
  • WE MISS YOU SOOOOOOOOOOO ALL OUR LOVE GRDMOTHER N GRDDADDY
  • Kaili
    Cannot believe it has been 6 years. I miss you so much and love you!!
  • Jackie
    I know it is not much but I have made a $50 donation to Onjo's scholarship fund. In the future, I intend to make a $50 donation at Christmas and on September 5 of each year. Onjo, continue to shine your angelic light on your grandmother and your entire family.
  • Jackie this is sooooooo thoughtful and kind of you ,bless you in all your walk, I can say now onjo is priceless becus she is with our ALMIGHY FATHER thank you from our heart her grandmother
  • John Perez
    Every. Year on this day,it is a sad day,we love you onjo
  • Greg & Angela G.
    Met your parents in Marathon Beach, FL, tonight Onjo. Truly wonderful people who obviously loved and cherished every moment they had on this earth with you and wanted you to live your life to the absolute fullest possible. After meeting them for a brief time, it was so apparent the deep void in their life since losing you....but they are making the best of their loss by honoring your memory in the best way possible. Very inspirational. You were such a BEAUTIFUL girl and so obviously full of life. FLY HIGH Sweet Sweet Dragonfly!!
  • Erika S., Daniel L., & Shannon A.
    Donna & Gerry, It was wonderful meeting you over dinner at Castaways. Your story, of your daughter and your mission was inspiring and heartwarming. You made me think about how deep a parent's love runs, and first thing this morning I gave my mom a hug and thanked her, from the bottom of my heart, just for being my mom. I love what you're doing to inspire the memory of your beautiful daughter and her dream. Best Wishes, Shannon
  • Cassie Osborne (Johnson)
    It has been many years since i've spoken to or seen many of the people on this side of my family. I'm Cassie, Raymond's granddaughter, and I can tell you that I heard about this website from Aunt Florence years ago, but had not ever visited it until now. What wonderful memories from my childhood visiting Onjo's website has brought back to me. I have smiled, laughed, cried and absorbed every word written by her, every smile shown in every picture. I have savored the beauty and love so emminant throughout these captured moments of her life. This is truly a celebration of the vibrant wonderful person that Onjo was. My memories of her are from early childhood playing at Great Granny's house in Beavercreek and I won't soon forget them or her. Thank you for allowing not just me, but the world to see pieces of her life that I hadn't known before. She was and remains to be inspirational and her heart beats on through her story :) Thank you all for Onjo.org :)
  • Phoebe Moody
    Although I never personally knew her in this earthly life ..... her soul, her eternal essence, shines on. Her loved ones will be joyfully reunited with her someday. They can personally take great peace in knowing that.
  • CELI
    MS PHOEBY . THIS IS SO SWEET THAT YOU WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS SITE AND WRITE TO THIS,YOU ARE AMAZING ,AND I THANK YOU FROM MY HEART .BLESSINGS
  • Kaili
    Eight years doesn't seem possible. You will forever be my WOW. I thank God everyday that you were a part of my life and such a bright light for all who knew you. Thank you for continuing to shine. Love you!
  • Audrey Neel
    What a beautiful life! Thank you for sharing this site with me. She was surrounded by so many people that truly loved her. I could tell it by all the wonderful pictures.
  • Madison hannabass
    Auntie Onjo a lot has happen I need to tell you. But we'll talk about that later:) I wanted to let you know I walked for you today!!! You have always been there for me. I love and miss you ssssooo much!! Hope you are having a fun day???? I love you from the moon and back??????????????????I Love you and miss you everyday my Beautiful guardian angel???????????????? PS mommy said I can write you on here any time I want! I am so excited to write you more later. But I am kinda tried and going to chill out for a bit???? Sorry I can't write you on Facebook but mom said I'm to young for Facebook????
  • Danny Mcfadyen
    Been awhile since I have been here, but have been thinking about you all the time. Lot has been going on. Tyson just turned 2 in April, you would love him! Great personality and good kid. Things are fine up here. It just hit me that next month we will be graduated from Glenvar 15 years! Wow time has flown by...miss you every day! Love Danny
  • Tammy
    What a beautiful young woman. She definitely seems to be a light that burned bright but not long enough.
  • Madison hannabass
    Today would of been onjos 33rd birthday??It's a wonderful day???? it's a happier day today bc it was the day that the greatest angel was born???????? we may be happy that she's happy but I know I'm still sad that I don't get to spend her birthday with her. Onjo is a strong happy wonderful simply perfect girl????????????hope your havin a perfect birthday is heaven onjo??I love you so much????
  • Kaili
    Hi Onjo! I heard your voice for the first time in 9 years. It made me miss you more. I've been walking for the past 3 weeks with your momma and we are having a blast. She reminds me of you in a lot of ways. Sending you love everyday! You are my WOW. Love you!!
  • Kaili
    Happy Birthday Onjo! Yesterday, a dragonfly visited me. I immediately thought of you. We love and miss you everyday.
  • Mary Staples
    Happy Birthday in heaven sweet Onjo. I remember bring Jamie to your September birthday parties.
  • Michael Orange
    Happy Birthday Beautiful! Just looked through the pictures that your Momma posted this morning and I will say that you always will put a smile on my face! You are missed be many and know that we all love you and someday will meet again! Love you! Michael, Angie, Dylan and Ally
  • Hillary
    Missing you today and always. Celebrating your life and the life you lived so fully, so vibrantly, so selflessly. Happy Birthday, my beautiful friend. All my love, Hillary
  • Emily
    Hi Love! Happy Birthday! Miss you more than you know...thank you for sending so many Dragonflies this summer, I needed them. Xoxo
  • Kaili
    Love you and miss you!
  • JEFF SPENCER
    Onjo, Someone came into my office today with a huge dragonfly key chain. I instantly thought of you! I'm going home and watch your DVD! Keep watching over all of us! You a greatly missed! Jeff
  • Kaili Crumpacker
    Happy Happy Birthday, ONJO! We love you so much. Victoria has noticed your picture and will look at it and talk. I think she is talking to you. Miss you everyday! My wow not why.
  • Onjo we love you. We r closer to COMN home now but the WORD says we won't know each other as we were but I'm sure that sweet gentle smile is the same it's march 2 2019. This month UV been with thee almighty SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST NOW FOR 12 yrs. seems yesterday ur mom was tucking u in my bed at 630 or 7. For her to go to work. I loved those times. I d tryin hold my breath til I knew you were back t sleep. So I wouldn't wake you. I wish I could remember a lot of the yrs but I guess the Lord has blocked some so it's not so painful having you there instead of here. We thank Jesus you are with HIM We'll be along soon. Kathys there and aunt Phyllis too. All our love BABY GIRL. ALL OUR LOVE
  • Kaili Crumpacker
    Thinking of you! Love you and miss you bunches. Victoria loves carrying your picture around. She smiles and giggles and it's almost like she knows a secret. Maybe it's you whispering to her.
  • Anonymous
    Saw your car with Onjo on it. It's been a long time since I've thought about her but when I saw "Onjo", I had to see if it was the special Onjo I renege from high school. Though we attended different schools she was part of our circle. She was one of the most infectious humans. Beautiful page and hi Onjo! You're missed greatly
  • Brooke
    I miss you so much, your faces and expressions, your excitement for life, your ability to call people out while still making everyone laugh. It doesn’t get any easier thinking about you and all the life you never got to live, but I’m just so thankful, so, so, so thankful for the time we had. You changed me and your presence in my life continues to affect who I am today. I am so confident we’ll meet again, you can be my best friend in heaven as you were on earth. Love forever and always until we meet again ♥️
  • Hillary
    17 years is just so hard to believe. I now look at my 17 year old daughter and am so grateful you were able to meet and hold her when she was just weeks old. I have told all my children about you--they would have adored you and you them. They know who you were to me and all who love you. Your memory will always be carried forward. I am sending my heartfelt love to your proud Mama and Daddy today as well. You are forever in my heart and my most favorite life memories, Onjo. Thinking of you today and always with such warmth and love.

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